one more apolo­getic, pho­to­less update

--April 14th, 2010--

My good­ness.

Life has been sim­ply crazy of late. The last two weeks have sim­ply SPED by in the com­pany of my beloved mother-in-law who always makes every event three times as much fun, just by being there. And there have been SO MANY events.

The bur­glary has also set me back as I just can­not retrieve pho­tographs from our old iPhoto sources with any ease. I depend on poor John to teach me to do every­thing, since my old sys­tem was stolen out from under me.

For my own san­ity, may I list: “Six Degrees of Sep­a­ra­tion” was a mixed bag, theatre-wise. Strong per­for­mances, the most thought-provoking notion just in and of itself: how many degrees sep­a­rate you from any­one you can imag­ine? Us from the Queen? Not so many as you’d think. John worked once at Gold­man with some­one who is now a Gor­don Brown staffer. There you go: three degrees. Angelina Jolie? Avery had a school chum whose mother was best bud­dies with Elton John. At most, three degrees? Mother Teresa? Just add one from the Queen to Princess Diana, and there you go. We couldn’t come up with ANY­ONE for whom we needed six actual degrees. And nei­ther do you, if you know me. That’s just one extra degree.

The play itself? Mem­o­rable mostly for the two naked male bod­ies fresh from a gay encounter, leap­ing about the stage. “Con­ceal­ing a gun? Look at me! I don’t think so!” Poor Avery didn’t know where to look. Today, as I was recount­ing the story, she said, “I was FINE about it, it was just sit­ting next to YOU when it hap­pened that was embarrassing!”

Ditto “The Last Sta­tion”, a film about Tol­stoy, with my adored crush James McAvoy in the sup­port­ing actor role. Well… one of the major plot lines was his deflow­er­ment, by a young Tol­stoyian maiden. Again, averted eyes, and “if you hadn’t been next to me…!” A bit too much edu­ca­tion, all of a sud­den. But as my dear friend Jo said today, none of it is the first, nor will it be the last, so get used to it all!

There have been count­less fab­u­lous shop­ping trips (Ben­e­fit for Avery, food for me in many dif­fer­ent places, the Apple store for John to replace our stolen com­put­ers)… and meals, my good­ness! Last night’s fried had­dock with fresh olive oil-rosemary bread­crumbs from Gail’s in Hamp­stead, home­made tartare sauce on the side! The Easter ham and its accom­pa­ny­ing dauphi­noise… fil­let of beef with mush­room dux­elles… pork medal­lions with sage, cream and brandy sauce…

Most of all, it’s been the com­pany of one of my favorite peo­ple on earth, plus two other of my favorite peo­ple on earth. Together, the four of us hud­dle down wher­ever we are, enjoy­ing each other, rais­ing a glass as many times as we can to John’s beloved, much-revered, completely-missed father, feel­ing that as long as we can remem­ber him to each other, laugh over our mem­o­ries, he is still here.

Right. Tomor­row I shall con­sol­i­date pho­tographs and tell you about Wilt­shire. Specif­i­cally, Sal­is­bury. Its Cathe­dral Close formed our home for six days, and its peo­ple were a com­plete delight. One in par­tic­u­lar… but that’s another story.

I promise I’m get­ting back on track and tomor­row? A recipe.

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2 Responses to “one more apolo­getic, pho­to­less update”

  1. Just a Plane Ride Away:

    Your com­put­ers were stolen. Why I did not think of that when I read your news in the last post? Gulp. I’ve had a lap­top stolen before… it’s just no fun. Hope you’re up and run­ning on your new machine!

  2. Kristen In London:

    Dread­ful, Plane Ride! My cal­en­dar dis­ap­peared for weeks… still can’t find sev­eral Word doc­u­ments. Awful! I’m sorry you went through the same.

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